Who I work with
I work with couples where one or both partners identify as:
- Autistic / on the autism spectrum
- ADHD / AuDHD
- Highly sensitive, introverted, or otherwise neurodivergent
What Makes Neurodiverse Relationships Different?
- Different communication styles — one partner may prefer direct, literal language, while the other values emotional nuance.
- Sensory or social differences that affect shared time, affection, or physical closeness.
- Distinct approaches to routines, planning, and flexibility.
- Misunderstandings around empathy or intent, even when both partners care deeply.
Goals of Therapy
Through our work together, you’ll gain:
- A deeper understanding of how neurodiversity shapes your relationship
- Tools for expressing needs clearly and listening effectively
- Strategies for managing conflict without escalation
- Increased intimacy and mutual understanding
- Renewed hope and connection as partners
My Approach
- The AANE Neurodiverse Couples Therapy Model
- The ADHD Effect in Marriage Approach
- The Gottman Method, modified for neurodiverse couples
- Psychoeducation about autism, ADHD, and sensory processing differences
- Practical tools for managing conflict, overstimulation, and executive functioning challenges